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In a surprising move, “Tim Alexander”, the iconic drummer of “Primus”, has announced he is stepping away from the band, sharing a deeply personal note to fans explaining his decision. Known for his distinctive drumming style and vital role in the band’s success, Alexander’s departure marks the end of an era for the progressive rock group, leaving many fans with questions about his sudden exit.
In an exclusive letter to “Rolling Stone”, Alexander opened up about his reasons for leaving Primus, emphasizing that his decision was driven by a need to prioritize his mental and physical health, as well as his family. The drummer reflected on the toll that years of touring and performing had taken on his body and mind, leading him to seek a new path forward.
A Path of Self-Love and Healing
“I chose a path of love,” Alexander wrote, explaining that stepping away from Primus was one of the hardest decisions of his life. He expressed that the physical demands of being a drummer had left him constantly in pain, particularly after decades of performing and touring, with chronic issues in his hands, back, and a history of heart surgery. The 59-year-old drummer, who joined Primus when he was just 24, said he had come to a realization that he could no longer ignore the physical and emotional toll of his career.
Over the past few months, Alexander has been focusing on healing, undergoing intensive mental health rehabilitation, and confronting personal struggles he had carried for years. He explained that this time of reflection had helped him gain clarity about what no longer served him, leading him to recognize the importance of prioritizing his health, family, and overall well-being.
Acknowledging the Past, Looking Toward the Future
“I want to give my family the presence and energy they deserve,” Alexander said in his letter, underscoring that his decision to step away was rooted in a desire to be a better husband, father, and individual. He admitted that over the years, his commitment to music had often come at the expense of his personal life, mental health, and physical health.
While acknowledging that the choice to leave Primus may have seemed abrupt, Alexander clarified that there is never a “perfect time” to leave a band that has been a significant part of your life. He also made it clear that his departure was not an emotional or dramatic rejection of the band or its members, but rather a decision made out of love and necessity.
“Sometimes it doesn’t feel balanced, and sometimes it doesn’t work out,” he explained.
New Beginnings and the Future of Music
Looking to the future, Alexander revealed that he is excited to begin a new chapter. As part of this next phase, he plans to focus on his online drum school, “Stick Academy”, where he hopes to inspire and teach the next generation of drummers. He expressed a desire to work with musicians of all ages and backgrounds, adding that helping others through his teaching is where he feels most fulfilled right now.
However, Alexander did not rule out a return to music altogether, adding that while he can’t predict what his future holds, he is not “saying ‘no’ to anything” at this time.
“This is not saying ‘no’ to anything, but I’m not saying ‘hell yes’ to anything, until I know,” he wrote, leaving the door open for future musical endeavors, but only when the time feels right.
Primus Moves Forward
In response to Alexander’s departure, “Primus” released a statement through their social media channels, acknowledging the drummer’s decision while expressing understanding and support for his personal journey. Bassist “Les Claypool” and guitarist “Larry LaLonde” confirmed that the band would continue with their scheduled performances, including a pair of New Year’s concerts in Oakland. They also mentioned that they would begin the search for a new drummer, humorously noting they would be looking for the “greatest drummer on Earth” to fill Alexander’s shoes.
A Heartfelt Goodbye
Alexander closed his letter by thanking the fans who have supported him throughout his career. He expressed deep gratitude for their kindness, which has been a source of strength as he navigates this transition. While he is stepping away from the band, he remains appreciative of everything Primus has given him— the music, the fans, and the unforgettable experiences. His departure marks the end of a significant chapter, but Alexander’s focus on his health and well-being signals an exciting new beginning that he hopes will inspire others to prioritize their own mental and physical health.
In his words, “I view this next chapter as a positive fresh beginning that can hopefully inspire others to speak and live their own truths, even when it’s hard.”
Fans and bandmates alike will surely miss his unique drumming, but Tim Alexander’s journey is far from over. Whether he returns to Primus or continues his work with future musicians, it’s clear that the drummer’s next chapter will be one focused on love, healing, and growth.
